Your kid is smart. Teachers say so. You know so. But the report cards tell a different story.

Missing assignments. Low test scores. "Does not apply themselves." "Needs to try harder." "Has so much potential."

Sound familiar?

If your child has ADHD, the problem is not effort. The problem is that the classroom was not designed for the way their brain works. And the law says the school has to do something about it.

Student using noise-canceling headphones to focus while studying in classroom

Your Child Has Legal Rights

Two federal laws protect students with ADHD:

Section 504 of the Rehabilitation Act. This law requires schools to provide "reasonable accommodations" to students with disabilities -- including ADHD. It applies to every public school that receives federal funding. A 504 Plan is the most common path for students with ADHD.

IDEA (Individuals with Disabilities Education Act). This law covers students who need specialized instruction. If ADHD significantly impacts academic performance, your child may qualify for an IEP (Individualized Education Program), which provides more extensive support than a 504 Plan.

The key difference: a 504 Plan provides accommodations (changes to how your child learns). An IEP provides specialized instruction (changes to what your child learns and how it is taught). Most students with ADHD start with a 504 Plan.

504 Plan vs. IEP: Which Does Your Child Need?

504 Plan -- Best for students who can handle the regular curriculum but need support staying on track. Think of it as removing obstacles. Examples: extra time on tests, preferential seating, permission to use fidget tools, modified homework loads.

IEP -- Best for students whose ADHD (often combined with a learning disability) significantly impacts academic performance. Think of it as providing specialized support. Examples: small group instruction, modified assignments, specialized reading or math instruction, behavioral intervention plans.

Your child can qualify for a 504 Plan with an ADHD diagnosis alone. An IEP typically requires a more detailed evaluation showing that ADHD substantially limits educational performance.

Accommodations That Actually Help

Not all accommodations are created equal. Here are the ones that research and experience show make the biggest difference for students with ADHD:

Extended time on tests and assignments. ADHD affects processing speed and working memory. Extra time (usually 50% more) is the single most impactful accommodation for most students.

Preferential seating. Near the teacher, away from windows and doors, away from distracting peers. Where your child sits directly affects their ability to focus.

Chunked assignments. Breaking large projects into smaller pieces with individual due dates. ADHD makes it nearly impossible to plan backward from a distant deadline.

Written instructions. Verbal instructions disappear the moment they are spoken. Written instructions give your child something to refer back to when their working memory lets them down.

Movement breaks. Scheduled breaks to stand, stretch, or walk. Expecting a child with ADHD to sit still for 45 minutes is setting them up to fail.

Check-ins. Brief, private check-ins with the teacher to make sure your child understands the assignment, has the right materials, and is on track. This catches problems before they become failures.

Parent and teacher meeting at school desk to discuss student accommodations

Modified homework. Reduced volume (not reduced rigor). If your child demonstrates mastery in 10 problems, they do not need to do 30. Quality over quantity.

Use of technology. Laptops for note-taking, audio recordings of lectures, calculator use, speech-to-text tools. These are not crutches -- they are tools that match the way your child's brain processes information.

Organizational support. Color-coded folders, assignment notebooks checked by teachers, locker organization help. Executive function deficits make organization genuinely difficult -- it is not laziness.

How to Get a 504 Plan

The process is more straightforward than most parents realize:

Step 1: Get a diagnosis. You need documentation that your child has ADHD from a qualified provider. This can be a psychiatrist, psychologist, PMHNP, or pediatrician. See our diagnosis guide for details.

Step 2: Request a 504 meeting in writing. Send a letter or email to your school's 504 coordinator (usually in the counseling office). State that your child has been diagnosed with ADHD and you are requesting a 504 Plan. Put it in writing -- verbal requests can be ignored or forgotten.

Step 3: Attend the 504 meeting. You, the 504 coordinator, your child's teachers, and sometimes an administrator will meet to discuss accommodations. Bring your child's diagnosis documentation, examples of how ADHD affects their schoolwork, and a list of accommodations you want.

Step 4: Review and update annually. 504 Plans are not set-it-and-forget-it. They should be reviewed at least once a year and updated as your child's needs change.

Important: Schools cannot refuse to evaluate your child for a 504 Plan if you make a written request. If they push back, cite Section 504 of the Rehabilitation Act and request a written explanation of their refusal.

What to Do If the School Is Not Helping

Not every school handles accommodations well. Here is what to do if you hit resistance:

Document everything. Keep copies of every email, letter, report card, and discipline referral. If the school is not following the 504 Plan, you need a paper trail.

Request a meeting. If accommodations are not being implemented, request a formal meeting with the 504 team. Be specific about which accommodations are not being followed and what impact it is having.

File a complaint. If the school continues to ignore the 504 Plan, you can file a complaint with the Office for Civil Rights (OCR) at the U.S. Department of Education. Schools take OCR complaints seriously.

Consider an advocate. Parent advocates and special education attorneys can attend meetings with you and ensure your child's rights are being upheld. Many offer free initial consultations.

Child using focus tool at desk while doing homework looking calm and engaged

Accommodations Are Not a Crutch

Some parents worry that accommodations will make their child dependent or give them an unfair advantage. Here is the truth:

ADHD is a neurological condition. Accommodations do not give your child an advantage -- they level the playing field. Extended time does not make a test easier. It gives your child the same opportunity to demonstrate what they know that their peers already have.

A child who needs glasses is not getting an "unfair advantage" by wearing them. Accommodations are the academic equivalent of glasses -- they correct for a real difference in how the brain works.

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School Accommodations FAQs

At what age can my child get a 504 Plan?

There is no minimum age. 504 Plans are available from kindergarten through 12th grade (and into college). If your child has an ADHD diagnosis and their symptoms affect their ability to learn, they qualify regardless of age or grade level.

Do private schools have to provide 504 Plans?

Only if they receive federal funding. Most private schools do not, so they are not legally required to provide 504 Plans. However, many private schools voluntarily offer accommodations. Ask the school directly about their policies. If your child attends a private school, you can also request check-up through your local public school district.

Will a 504 Plan follow my child to college?

Section 504 applies to colleges that receive federal funding (which is almost all of them). However, your child will need to self-advocate and register with the college's disability services office. The accommodations may differ from high school, but the right to accommodations continues.

Can my child get accommodations on the SAT or ACT?

Yes. Both the College Board (SAT) and ACT offer accommodations for students with documented disabilities, including ADHD. The most common is extended time. Your school's 504 coordinator can help with the application process. Apply early -- approval can take several weeks.

What if my child does not want accommodations?

This is common, especially with older students who do not want to feel different. Talk to your child about how accommodations work and why they matter. Many students find that accommodations can be implemented quietly -- extended time can be offered without other students knowing, for example. The goal is support, not a label.